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Majy
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 Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:28 Post subject: my problem..
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Lately, I've been kind of slutting myself around, which disgusts me because I'm not that kind of person... like I've been banging out chicks that I just meet and stuff, but like they're not even people I want to talk to afterwards... and then I have this other problem where I just like get really lonely when I'm alone... like I used to actually enjoy being alone, or at the very least not mind it one bit... it's really weird.
anyway, I don't know why I'm even posting this, probably bc right now I'm a lonely boy =( You can post whatever comments you want, thanks for listening =P
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atarom
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:30 Post subject:
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low self-esteem!
get a hobby! play sports, join a club, make friends. hang out with people you dont meet in bars/parties.
um. yah.
tell us more about yourself.
inc realpoor counseling
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Majy
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:33 Post subject:
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I have no social problems =/ I go out almost every night, I have more friends than I know what to do with of all assortments... actually I can't think of a time that my life has been better in a long while... I don't think I've ever been as active in a while, or as happy... I guess I have a history of being depressed for periods of time... was actually real depressed just yesterday for no reason but for the most part since I've been back at school everything has been great... I have no clue where this feeling came from, but I've really noticed it... like whenever I'm alone for a while I really get lonely...
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Finigan
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:33 Post subject:
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hang yourself with the elastic part of your underwear.
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atarom
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:34 Post subject:
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how many really close friends do you have? people you can talk to about who you feel? besides anonymouse realpoor people.. hehe, e.g. me.
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Brolly Trusaiyan
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Location: Texas- H-town
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:34 Post subject:
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You remind me of myself 1 year ago. I use to just get play from whatever chick then i would be in my room depressed because i had nobody worth falling in love with.. I stopped being a man hoe and started to date girls. I found the right one and 1 year and 5 months later here I am, happy as could be.
My Advice to you is to date.. Find a girl that you really want to be. Make sure she posses the qualities that you want in a woman because sleeping with woman is fun but making love is the best feeling in the world..
/call grammer spelling police.
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Majy
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:34 Post subject:
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considering the fact that my best friends friend just hung himself, that actually did offend me =/
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Majy
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:36 Post subject:
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Actually that's an interesting point you brought up, Brolly =/ I am the kind of guy who likes to be in relationships and in the past that's all I've had... changed my ways just recently because I can't find a girl that interests me enough here at school to do that with...
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Maelstrom
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Joined: 11 Oct 2002
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Location: Montréal
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:36 Post subject:
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Tired of **** maybe? tired of 1 night f***s that leads you no were? Too easy?
Everyone can get laid, but its another thing to find a woman/ men that fits perfectly for you.
Im currently dating my best woman friend we might become bf/gf with time but so far, we hang a lot together and nothing ****, only pure fun going out, sharing activities with each others etc...
I dont feel lonely anymore nor do I think about my past relationships.
If **** is your number 1 reason to date right now I suggest that you change it fast.
If 1 woman cant make you happy then it simply mean that you are not ready for a serious relationship or that you dont know what kind of woman you want..or simply what you want.
put the breaks, slow down, be friends with them without having **** in your mind and try to know them well , take your time and with time who knows what might happen.
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Finigan
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:36 Post subject:
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| Quote: | | considering the fact that my best friends friend just hung himself, that actually did offend me =/ |
follow suite.
A true friend would follow his friends to the afterlife.
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Majy
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:38 Post subject:
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and atarom - real close friends about... 11
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atarom
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:39 Post subject:
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/ignore finigan.
my advice is trying to form solid relationships with anyone. boys or girls. find people you can truly relate to.
if you're no longer happy with one night stands and small time friendships, it's probably time to step up and try for something a little more involving.
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Majy
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:41 Post subject:
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yea I guess I need a girlfriend is what it comes down to =/ It's hard for me tho... my previous relationship had a huge amount of comfort, it's gonna take me a long ass time to get to that level again, and finding a girl that I can achieve that with is difficult enough...
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Maelstrom
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Posted: 04/06/03 - 23:44 Post subject:
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Well you wont find any good woman if you s***w up with all those around you.
How can a serious woman want to be with you if all her friends tell her that they had **** with you?
if once you have **** with them you tell them bye bye sorry but you build yourself a f**k guy's reputation and only s***s will go to you cause they know what you want.
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Akronn
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 00:01 Post subject:
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I had a few fraternity brothers who absolutely destroyed their reps by sleeping around too much. Yeah they had tons of fun when they were 19, but it all dried up fast. Those were the guys who were going to our formals stag by the time they were legally old enough to drink 
My advice: simplify your life. Having tons of friends and going to the bar 6 nights a week is a huge blast, but you're really yearning for that one person you can be really close with. Someone that can replace 30 other people that fill your time in one large swoop. Instead of wasting your time with random people you don't really give two s***s about, make an honest effort at meeting someone you connect with. Easier said than done, but it's worth the effort. Your only alternative is tell yourself that you don't care what others think of you.
My guess is, you used to not mind being alone so long as you had a significant other or somebody you really cared about somewhere out there. On any particular night she could be working or out with friends and it was cool if you stayed in your room and chilled that night. You didn't feel like a loser then, you were just given some space for that night and it's actually awesome to relax a bit and do whatever you want to do. But now that's gone. When you're alone, you wonder if there's anybody out there thinking of you.
Now you see, it's so easy to be alone in a crowd.
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Janoth
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 00:03 Post subject:
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This thread makes me sad.  x239874293
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Maelstrom
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 00:10 Post subject:
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Yep having too many friends isnt that good.
Chose the best ones and give them more of your time and just stop sleeping with every woman you find.
Cause by doing so you may miss a great woman. Partying is fun...oh yeah until 1 day you wake up still alone with no one to talk about your drunk nights...no one to talk about al lthe woman that you had **** with... cause by then it wont matter how many cute/**** woman you had **** with..since you will still be alone.
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Brael
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 00:14 Post subject:
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majy, lets f**k
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Brolly Trusaiyan
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 00:18 Post subject:
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| Janothhhh wrote: | | This thread makes me sad. x239874293 |
/hug
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WheresNWS
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 00:58 Post subject:
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Maybe you're gay.
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Kudil
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 00:58 Post subject:
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Also, don't totally toss out the idea of depression, just because things are going well in life, does not mean it can't be depression, often times it is chemical imbalances rather then enviroment that leads to it. Try not sleeping aroudn first off though, if you dont like that behavior, but do it anyways, that definately could explain the feelings, look for a nice girl, see how that goes, but if it remains a problem, might want to set up an appt with the doc and see about it.
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WheresNWS
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 01:04 Post subject:
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Or maybe have **** with men...because you might be gay.
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Kazkuk
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 01:06 Post subject:
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yo ass be depressed niggah
8 ball sez: seek professional counseling soon!
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WheresNWS
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 01:07 Post subject:
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It's also possible that you might just be gay.
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DrevanMI
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 01:13 Post subject:
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Lol whereNWS
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Damiana
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 06:33 Post subject:
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One of your friend's friends hung himself? That's enough to send you into a tailspin, trying to get stuff sorted out.
It sounds like you're desperately looking for comfort and reassurance, and quick fix f***s aren't doing it. I think people have given good advice, slow down and find someone special.
Counseling is good, might want to give that a try, too.
Good luck 
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Faerdal
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 06:46 Post subject:
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another one of majy's fine "i have a million angsty teenage problems, please help my pathetic whoring ass out" threads
neat.
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Kbarr
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 09:06 Post subject:
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f*****g p****s. Girly men, you all make me wanna puke.
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Crackr
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 10:18 Post subject: Re: my problem..
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| Majy wrote: | Lately, I've been kind of slutting myself around, which disgusts me because I'm not that kind of person... like I've been banging out chicks that I just meet and stuff, but like they're not even people I want to talk to afterwards... and then I have this other problem where I just like get really lonely when I'm alone... like I used to actually enjoy being alone, or at the very least not mind it one bit... it's really weird.
anyway, I don't know why I'm even posting this, probably bc right now I'm a lonely boy =( You can post whatever comments you want, thanks for listening =P |
Find God.
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Manuva
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Posted: 04/07/03 - 10:23 Post subject:
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"Look at me! I'm cool!
What?
No really, I AM! TRUST ME!"
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