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Xarpolis
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 Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:02 Post subject: Question about Contraception. Need advice.
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Ok, not sure where to start so I'll just get right down to the point.
My girlfriend and I have a somewhat healthy **** relationship. No problem's there that I'm awair of, but here's where my question comes in.
She is unable to take birth control pills due to an almost alergic type reaction. Aparantly her cervix produces too many Mucus membrain when she is "on the pill" which I guess leads to trouble. She discovered this with her last boyfriend, and had to go into surgery to freeze the excess membrain or some such.
Anyway... I'm not a big fan of Condoms. I don't mind what they do, but I guess I'm just not as sensitive as joe average guy. I CAN NOT finish with one on. We've tried a bunch of various ways, but my body just won't climax if I'm wearing one, which makes the act of **** not all that it could be. I don't mind wearing them so she can have a grand old time, but I'm looking for other options now so I can benefit from this as well.
I've read about an injection that women can get to pretty much make them steril for 6 months or so. But it also runs the risk of causing you to have a 6 month long period if you're one of the few % that is affected that way. I don't really understand all of that.
Anyway, that has my GF wanting to never ever take this sort of thing. So what I'm trying to figure out is if there is anything that I could do. Do guys have a similiar sort of injection? I don't want to feel like an ass for asking if I could just not use a condom and promise to pull out. that's not my thing...
So um yeah. Is there any other form of contraception that a guy can have aside from condoms and abstinence that will make pregnancy not an option when having ****? I'll be looking foward to all the various ideas or know-how's that you may have. Maybe there's a medication...?
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principessa
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:08 Post subject:
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Ck your PMs in a few mins, hon.
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Akronn
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:10 Post subject:
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No PMs! I'm bored here, I need descriptions! This thread could be great!
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WheresNWS
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:13 Post subject:
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Two words: anal ****
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principessa
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:14 Post subject:
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haha...Akronn, I leave it to you guys to make this thread fulfill its potential. I just felt Xarp's questions required a private reply.
Call me old-fashioned.
Nah, nm, that totally wouldn't apply <g>
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Kaladam
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:16 Post subject:
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This thread made me LIRL. Thank you xarp for making my day 
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Bait Masterson
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:19 Post subject:
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Do not
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Do not
forsake a condom until you "Want" babies, no matter how safe she says it is.
too easy to get trapped and then you are stuck paying for your mistake 18 years later.
my suggestion, try different type of textured condoms, or after you are tired f*****g her, take your c**k out and then let her work on it.
Last final words
DO NOT f**k a chick without a condom, for your own financial wellbeing.
Dont be dumb, **** aint worth 18 years of child support.
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Faerdal
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:20 Post subject:
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this is completely un-researched and may be totally wrong, but isn't it possible to get a vasectomy (which is pretty much a minor outpatient operation) and then later have it reversed? i'm not sure if there's different kinds of vasectomies, but maybe if you let the doctor know that you intended to have kids someday and only wanted this to last for a few years or something the operation could be done differently
once again this is completely speculation, someone with more medical experience let me know if i'm way off base =)
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WheresNWS
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:20 Post subject:
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| Bait Masterson wrote: | Do not
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Do not
forsake a condom until you "Want" babies, no matter how safe she says it is.
too easy to get trapped and then you are stuck paying for your mistake 18 years later.
my suggestion, try different type of textured condoms, or after you are tired f*****g her, take your c**k out and then let her work on it.
Last final words
DO NOT f**k a chick without a condom, for your own financial wellbeing.
Dont be dumb, **** aint worth 18 years of child support. |
Personal experience?
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principessa
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:21 Post subject:
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Even if you are correct, Faerdal, he still has to pay to have that done. Med insurance isn't going to cover that. I have no clue how expensive it is, though...
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khrath
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:23 Post subject:
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That shot owns, it's a 100% succesful form of birth control, because it makes them repulsed at the thought of having ****! She wont even let you touch her man, it'll work like a charm! Plus, it has a high chance of making all of the hair on her head fall out, so you wont wanna touch her either!!!
If you cant get off with a condom on, thats your problem, bustin a nut is 10% stimulation and 90% mental, you need to fix yourself broke d**k.
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Kaladam
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:23 Post subject:
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I know a couple people that have been f****d over this way. My aunts current boyfriend just found his daughter (his ex-girlfriend just ran away after the child was born and he never saw them again.) Now a courts forcing backpayments on him for the 17 years the kid was alive, even though he had no clue where the hell they were and the girl was the one that disappeared.
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Derringer
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:23 Post subject:
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| WheresNWS wrote: | | Bait Masterson wrote: | Do not
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Do not
forsake a condom until you "Want" babies, no matter how safe she says it is.
too easy to get trapped and then you are stuck paying for your mistake 18 years later.
my suggestion, try different type of textured condoms, or after you are tired f*****g her, take your c**k out and then let her work on it.
Last final words
DO NOT f**k a chick without a condom, for your own financial wellbeing.
Dont be dumb, **** aint worth 18 years of child support. |
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No, but it is very good advice... Unless you have no problem thinking about your future with a child by her, 'the pill' simply is not good enough of a reassurance.
Short of a reversible vassectomy (which can have complications up to and including it being irreversible), there is no substitute for a condom.
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khrath
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:24 Post subject:
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also, try thinking about guys when you f**k, you might be gay and dont know it yet.
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Xarpolis
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:25 Post subject:
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Someone on IRC was talking to me... he said this.
this may have already crossed your mind, but a vasectomy is reversable when you want to have a kid, is reasonably cheap and pretty damn permanant
its a minor surgery, only a local anesthetic and minimal recorvery time. but most guys are squemish about that route
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Bait Masterson
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:26 Post subject:
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Nope not personal experience except for the fact everywhere I turn in seattle I see single mothers.
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khrath
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:27 Post subject:
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yah, my bad, I knew I shouldnt of taken that trip to seattle for fan faire
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gimpy
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 16:38 Post subject: heh..
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| principessa wrote: | | Even if you are correct, Faerdal, he still has to pay to have that done. Med insurance isn't going to cover that. I have no clue how expensive it is, though... |
most medical insurance covers that, hell i had blue cross and they covered it when I had mine done on my 21'st b-day. Even if you do not have insurance you can get it done for less than 300.... much cheaper than a baby. make sure you have the docter perform a REVERSABLE vasectomy however. Mine was not.. but man let me tell you, **** was like 200% BETTER after the vasectomy. I was like most guys, HATED wearing condoms.
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principessa
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:03 Post subject:
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Gimpy how the hell did they cover that? It's an elective surgery--oh wait. you had Blue Cross....they may very well have covered it.
I would venture to say that HMO's won't cover it as elective surgery, though. I don't have my Oxford member books here to check.
I am still shaking my head that you got an irreversible vasectomy at 21!!!!
Reminder--condoms are not only to prevent pregnacy 
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Bait Masterson
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:09 Post subject:
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Some men honestly dont want to EVER have kids, im one of em.
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principessa
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:15 Post subject:
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Can you know that at 21 anymore than you can know that if you marry someone at that age, you will remain with them faithfully for the rest of your life, conceivably 60+ years?
The marriage can be ended.
An irreversible procedure can't be undone
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Mental_Hernia
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:16 Post subject:
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| Xarpolis wrote: | Someone on IRC was talking to me... he said this.
this may have already crossed your mind, but a vasectomy is reversable when you want to have a kid, is reasonably cheap and pretty damn permanant
its a minor surgery, only a local anesthetic and minimal recorvery time. but most guys are squemish about that route |
From what Ive heard and read, yes vesectimities are reversable. In a jist, they just cut off the sperm flow ( vans defrance? ) from the tube that it mixes with prostate juice; so when you jizz you're just firing blanks..
They can re-open the tube, sew it back to where they cut it and then they can start the sperm flow again.. I think theres like a 2 week - 2 month time between the surgery and when you're firing full rounds again though.
[edit] also, vesectimities are lot cheaper and less dangerous then chicks getting their tubes tied; something that most 35+ women do, not early 20s.
Vesectamy is still a huge thing to do just to f**k though, Xarp =/
Last edited by Mental_Hernia on 06/26/03 - 17:18; edited 1 time in total
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Minion
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:17 Post subject:
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| WheresNWS wrote: | | Bait Masterson wrote: | Do not
repeat
Do not
forsake a condom until you "Want" babies, no matter how safe she says it is.
too easy to get trapped and then you are stuck paying for your mistake 18 years later.
my suggestion, try different type of textured condoms, or after you are tired f*****g her, take your c**k out and then let her work on it.
Last final words
DO NOT f**k a chick without a condom, for your own financial wellbeing.
Dont be dumb, **** aint worth 18 years of child support. |
Personal experience? |
Kind of, it was his Dad's advice :(
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Sabathius
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:20 Post subject:
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That shot makes girls gain weight and makes them bitchy.
TRUST ME.
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Mental_Hernia
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:23 Post subject:
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| Quote: | Vasectomy: What to Consider Before You Get One
Vasectomy
By Steven N. Gange, MD, FACS
WebMD Feature Archive
Vasectomy is a relatively simple and safe surgical procedure used to help men become infertile or sterile (unable to father children). At least 500,000 of these are performed each year in the United States, and serious complications are very uncommon. Vasectomy is designed to be permanent, so your decision needs to be made carefully. If you are undecided, continue to use one of the many effective temporary contraceptive devices available. Your wife might consider a tubal ligation, but this procedure is more complicated and expensive than vasectomy, so most couples opt for vasectomy. Once you have made the decision to proceed, there are some things you should know and consider before having a vasectomy.
1. While a vasectomy is not a serious surgery, it still carries certain risks.
Vasectomy is an office procedure, performed under local anesthesia (numbing medicine) with or without sedation (medicine to make one drowsy) by urologists and some general and family practitioners. A preliminary counseling session is required, in which literature and consent forms are reviewed and a physical exam is performed.
The most common risks are infection and bleeding, and neither is usually serious. How you take care of yourself after vasectomy can minimize these risks. You will be advised to take it easy, use ice on the scrotum, and wear supportive undergarments for several days to a week. Other, less common problems include the development of a small lump (called a sperm granuloma), which may require removal, epididymitis (swelling and pain of the epididymis, which connects the testicle to the vas deferens), or chronic testicular pain or sensitivity after vasectomy. The most worrisome risk is that of vasectomy failure or recanalization (the two ends become reconnected); this is very rare, but emphasizes the importance of verifying the success of the vasectomy by delivering semen specimens to your physician, who will look for persistent sperm. Getting all the sperm out of the semen can take months; usually 20 or more ejaculations will be required. Never assume you are sterile until your doctor confirms it.
Vasectomy has never been conclusively determined to predispose a man to any future health problem. The studies linking vasectomy to prostate cancer, for example, are not convincing, and contradictory results from several large studies offer some reassurance that we don't have any good reason to believe that there is a link between vasectomy and prostate cancer.
2. What happens during a vasectomy?
A vasectomy simply blocks the flow of the sperm. During the procedure, the doctor removes a piece of each vas deferens, the tubes that carry sperm from the testicles to the penis, and seals the ends (with metal clips, sutures or cautery). Two techniques are available, based on the doctor's training and preference: an open technique and a no-scalpel technique. In both cases an incision is created, but the no-scapel incision is made with a pointed clamp and is smaller. Lasers are not generally used for vasectomy.
3. A vasectomy will not change your "manliness."
No hormonal changes occur after vasectomy. Vasectomy will not change your **** performance or satisfaction. Because only 5 percent of the ejaculate is sperm, the change in volume is not noticeable. Keep in mind, however, that vasectomy does not offer any protection against STDs.
4. Vasectomy reversals are available, but not always successful.
Your urologist can perform a vasectomy reversal, but can't offer any guarantee about success. The sooner after vasectomy, the more likely it can be reversed. The procedure is done in a hospital or surgical center and is costly ($3000 to $5000); insurance does not cover vasectomy reversal. Again, it is best to think of vasectomy as a permanent procedure |
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Haroun Zehra
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:30 Post subject:
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1. Norplant
- this is a time-release birthcontrol system. Basically, these little tablets get injected under the skin (usually the back of the arm) of the woman. They time-release hormones.
2. The Female Condom
- feels different from when you wear a condom. Might work better for you.
3. Cervical Cap w/ Spermicide
- this is not considered 100% effective without a condom, but just thought I'd throw it in there.
4. The Pill. There are LOTS of different versions of The Pill out there. If one didn't work for her, others may.
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Mental_Hernia
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:34 Post subject:
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Orthotricyclin!
No babies and soft smooth skin!
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Akronn
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:38 Post subject:
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Seriously, the best advice here is: learn to enjoy **** with a condom.
Surgery may do more harm than good and there isn't a pill/shot out there that's 100%. Most of 'em come with nasty side effects too 
Hell, at my young age I already know three girls (at least) that got pregnant even though they were on the pill or took injections. If something is only 99.99% effective and you have **** 4-5 times a week.... do the math.
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khrath
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:39 Post subject:
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Old school airborne know the way
Pull drop method baby
Pull it out, and drop it in her mouth, it's the only way to fly!
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Mental_Hernia
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Posted: 06/26/03 - 17:48 Post subject:
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As soon as its in, there's a chance of pregnancy.. Pulling ..out... does.. nothing
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