Question about Contraception. Need advice.

Ok, not sure where to start so I'll just get right down to the point.

My girlfriend and I have a somewhat healthy sexual relationship. No problem's there that I'm awair of, but here's where my question comes in.

She is unable to take birth control pills due to an almost alergic type reaction. Aparantly her cervix produces too many Mucus membrain when she is "on the pill" which I guess leads to trouble. She discovered this with her last boyfriend, and had to go into surgery to freeze the excess membrain or some such.

Anyway... I'm not a big fan of Condoms. I don't mind what they do, but I guess I'm just not as sensitive as joe average guy. I CAN NOT finish with one on. We've tried a bunch of various ways, but my body just won't climax if I'm wearing one, which makes the act of sex not all that it could be. I don't mind wearing them so she can have a grand old time, but I'm looking for other options now so I can benefit from this as well.

I've read about an injection that women can get to pretty much make them steril for 6 months or so. But it also runs the risk of causing you to have a 6 month long period if you're one of the few % that is affected that way. I don't really understand all of that.

Anyway, that has my GF wanting to never ever take this sort of thing. So what I'm trying to figure out is if there is anything that I could do. Do guys have a similiar sort of injection? I don't want to feel like an a*s for asking if I could just not use a condom and promise to pull out. that's not my thing...

So um yeah. Is there any other form of contraception that a guy can have aside from condoms and abstinence that will make pregnancy not an option when having sex? I'll be looking foward to all the various ideas or know-how's that you may have. Maybe there's a medication...?

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haha...Akronn, I leave it to you guys to make this thread fulfill its potential. I just felt Xarp's questions required a private reply.

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Do not

repeat

Do not
forsake a condom until you "Want" babies, no matter how safe she says it is.

too easy to get trapped and then you are stuck paying for your mistake 18 years later.

my suggestion, try different type of textured condoms, or after you are tired f*****g her, take your c**k out and then let her work on it.

Last final words

DO NOT f**k a chick without a condom, for your own financial wellbeing.

Dont be dumb, sex aint worth 18 years of child support.

this is completely un-researched and may be totally wrong, but isn't it possible to get a vasectomy (which is pretty much a minor outpatient operation) and then later have it reversed? i'm not sure if there's different kinds of vasectomies, but maybe if you let the doctor know that you intended to have kids someday and only wanted this to last for a few years or something the operation could be done differently

once again this is completely speculation, someone with more medical experience let me know if i'm way off base =)

Bait Masterson wrote:

Do not repeat Do not forsake a condom until you "Want" babies, no matter how safe she says it is. too easy to get trapped and then you are stuck paying for your mistake 18 years later. my suggestion, try different type of textured condoms, or after you are tired f*****g her, take your c**k out and then let her work on it. Last final words DO NOT f**k a chick without a condom, for your own financial wellbeing. Dont be dumb, sex aint worth 18 years of child support.

Personal experience?

Even if you are correct, Faerdal, he still has to pay to have that done. Med insurance isn't going to cover that. I have no clue how expensive it is, though...

That shot owns, it's a 100% succesful form of birth control, because it makes them repulsed at the thought of having sex! She wont even let you touch her man, it'll work like a charm! Plus, it has a high chance of making all of the hair on her head fall out, so you wont wanna touch her either!!!

If you cant get off with a condom on, thats your problem, bustin a nut is 10% stimulation and 90% mental, you need to fix yourself broke d**k.

I know a couple people that have been f****d over this way. My aunts current boyfriend just found his daughter (his ex-girlfriend just ran away after the child was born and he never saw them again.) Now a courts forcing backpayments on him for the 17 years the kid was alive, even though he had no clue where the hell they were and the girl was the one that disappeared.

WheresNWS wrote:

Bait Masterson wrote: Do not repeat Do not forsake a condom until you "Want" babies, no matter how safe she says it is. too easy to get trapped and then you are stuck paying for your mistake 18 years later. my suggestion, try different type of textured condoms, or after you are tired f*****g her, take your c**k out and then let her work on it. Last final words DO NOT f**k a chick without a condom, for your own financial wellbeing. Dont be dumb, sex aint worth 18 years of child support. Personal experience?

No, but it is very good advice... Unless you have no problem thinking about your future with a child by her, 'the pill' simply is not good enough of a reassurance.

Short of a reversible vassectomy (which can have complications up to and including it being irreversible), there is no substitute for a condom.

also, try thinking about guys when you f**k, you might be gay and dont know it yet.

Someone on IRC was talking to me... he said this.

this may have already crossed your mind, but a vasectomy is reversable when you want to have a kid, is reasonably cheap and pretty damn permanant

its a minor surgery, only a local anesthetic and minimal recorvery time. but most guys are squemish about that route

Nope not personal experience except for the fact everywhere I turn in seattle I see single mothers.

yah, my bad, I knew I shouldnt of taken that trip to seattle for fan faire

principessa wrote:

Even if you are correct, Faerdal, he still has to pay to have that done. Med insurance isn't going to cover that. I have no clue how expensive it is, though...

most medical insurance covers that, hell i had blue cross and they covered it when I had mine done on my 21'st b-day. Even if you do not have insurance you can get it done for less than 300.... much cheaper than a baby. make sure you have the docter perform a REVERSABLE vasectomy however. Mine was not.. but man let me tell you, sex was like 200% BETTER after the vasectomy. I was like most guys, HATED wearing condoms.

Gimpy how the hell did they cover that? It's an elective surgery--oh wait. you had Blue Cross....they may very well have covered it.

I would venture to say that HMO's won't cover it as elective surgery, though. I don't have my Oxford member books here to check.

I am still shaking my head that you got an irreversible vasectomy at 21!!!!

Reminder--condoms are not only to prevent pregnacy

Some men honestly dont want to EVER have kids, im one of em.