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Mental_Hernia
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 Posted: 02/13/04 - 01:56 Post subject: f*****g teenage drama...
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Ok, lets see how this goes..
I had a class with 2 guys and a girl.. Im friends with all 3 of them now.
Both guys have known the girl for over a year and are really really good friends with eachother; hang out on the weekends, watch movies, all that stuff.
The last day of school before Xmas break, I asked her out to a movie. We went on Christmas Eve, walked the mall and then talked by her car for a while. Got to know eachother well.. Yay!
I asked her out bowling a week later. We did that for 2 hours, drove around for an hour more talking, and then hung out at her house for 30 minutes or so. Getting close and all that.
Few nights later, I call her at 1:30am after getting off work and talk with her till almost 5:00. +10 points!
Then school starts, she's busy with school and working and all that... She says so and thats why she couldnt go out that weekend.. Thats fine, same thing with me so its cool..
Next weekend, same thing. She never picks up the phone, never comes online. Hmmm
Finally, 2 weeks after the bowling thing, I get in contact with her through a cell phone.. She never picked up with my home phone, but picked up on the first ring with a cellphone.. I could tell she was kind of caught off guard and I told her I wanted to talk. We talk for a few minutes, and I say that I havent seen her in almost 2 weeks, and she asks what I thought would happen between the two of us. With how much we talked and how much fun i KNOW she and I had, I figured SOMETHING was forming... Apparantly not, and she likes me a lot as a friend and Im fun to be with, but she doesnt like me as more than that...
f**k f**k f**k..
Ok so then Im f*****g torn up inside, since I thought we had some kind of connection forming; with how well we knew eachother and how indepth our conversations got, about more than just trivial things, I thought there was a mutual thing.
I call her on the weekend saying I want to talk to her about something, and she doesnt call back... Still no sign of her online.
So then I actually go the the lengths of writing her a letter, since I know she cant ignore that without reading some of it at first.
Sure enoguh, the day she gets the letter, she's online and we talk for a long long time. We clear up a lot of stuff and why she did some of the things she did, yadda yadda yadda.. That's fine, at least I know what she was thinking and how she feels about things now.
Then comes the shit with our 2 mutual friends. I knew that one of them, 'B' as we will call him, liked her for a while and she told him that she doesn't feel the same way.. So I figured he's outta the picture... The other, 'X' hangs out with her so often that I figured its a good strong friendship and nothing more.. So no competition! Right? WRONG
Since friend X was feeling all p****d off and depressed all the time, and would never tell me what was wrong, I finally just told him about me and the girl so that he would have some kind of confidence in me.. Sure enough, what he and B had been arguing about lately was about hte girl too.. Ah shit!
X didnt know whehter or not to make a move on her, and I told him to go for it since I know I wont get anything out of trying to get with her.. This goes on for a week or so but he says he wont do it because he doesnt want to mess up the friendship ( another thing I told him to be wary about )
Well I find out today, that he (X) actaully went out with her for a few days, and that friend B told her to break it off. The part that tore me up inside, again, is that she does indeed like him, but had her friends tell him to ask her out..
Now Im f*****g depressed again, not only because I know she doesnt like me in that way, but that she DOES like my friend. Especialyl after saying how bad she is at realationships and how she wants to 'stay single'
f**k me in the ass, I f*****g hate dating drama.
/RANT
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Renork
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:13 Post subject: Re: f*****g teenage drama...
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| Mental_Hernia wrote: |
f**k me in the ass
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And your going after some girl why?
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Buntz
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:16 Post subject:
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you should of saw that coming a mile away man.
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-Reneloth-
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:17 Post subject:
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Its ok MH! Theres always the movie theatre!
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ATM Banana
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:18 Post subject:
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i didn't read it, clifnotes, plz.
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Tiluvas
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:22 Post subject:
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| Quote: | | I had a class with 2 guys and a girl.. Im friends with all 3 of them now. |
I knew where this post was heading as soon as I read that line. My suggestion to you, is that since both you and B were turned down by this girl, that you two should hook up. Theres no better **** than between two men scorn by the same woman.
Also, if you two hook up, then it will open up X to date the girl. It's a win win situation.
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Akronn
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:24 Post subject:
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Getting serious with a girl before you're 30 is a waste of youth anyways. 
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Mental_Hernia
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:24 Post subject:
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I hate you all 
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GruntingCod
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:29 Post subject:
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| Mental_Hernia wrote: | | I hate you all |
You cant expect anything more than you have received so far from these dipshits.
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-Reneloth-
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:30 Post subject:
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Kill X, kidnap and rape the girl, blame it on B.
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Kenbin
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:33 Post subject:
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| -Reneloth- wrote: | | Kill X, kidnap and rape the girl, blame it on B. |
It really does work!
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Sabalo
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:41 Post subject:
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Getting shit on by a girl drama is lame. im still recovering but might make a come back with valentines day!
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Sabalo
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 02:54 Post subject:
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Oh btw... Thats why i have my sig. THat was on my bumper for about 5 hours until my dad saw it and shit all over that idea.
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ATM Banana
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 03:00 Post subject:
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this is why god needed to make lots of hot, emotionally stable chicks, and to outnumber men by like 20 to 1...
that would make my life.
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Sabalo
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 03:01 Post subject:
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selfish b*****d.. it would help us all. EVen the women!
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gotissues68
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 03:55 Post subject: Re: f*****g teenage drama...
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| Mental_Hernia wrote: | Ok, lets see how this goes..
I had a class with 2 guys and a girl.. Im friends with all 3 of them now.
Both guys have known the girl for over a year and are really really good friends with eachother; hang out on the weekends, watch movies, all that stuff.
The last day of school before Xmas break, I asked her out to a movie. We went on Christmas Eve, walked the mall and then talked by her car for a while. Got to know eachother well.. Yay!
I asked her out bowling a week later. We did that for 2 hours, drove around for an hour more talking, and then hung out at her house for 30 minutes or so. Getting close and all that.
Few nights later, I call her at 1:30am after getting off work and talk with her till almost 5:00. +10 points!
Then school starts, she's busy with school and working and all that... She says so and thats why she couldnt go out that weekend.. Thats fine, same thing with me so its cool..
Next weekend, same thing. She never picks up the phone, never comes online. Hmmm
Finally, 2 weeks after the bowling thing, I get in contact with her through a cell phone.. She never picked up with my home phone, but picked up on the first ring with a cellphone.. I could tell she was kind of caught off guard and I told her I wanted to talk. We talk for a few minutes, and I say that I havent seen her in almost 2 weeks, and she asks what I thought would happen between the two of us. With how much we talked and how much fun i KNOW she and I had, I figured SOMETHING was forming... Apparantly not, and she likes me a lot as a friend and Im fun to be with, but she doesnt like me as more than that...
f**k f**k f**k..
Ok so then Im f*****g torn up inside, since I thought we had some kind of connection forming; with how well we knew eachother and how indepth our conversations got, about more than just trivial things, I thought there was a mutual thing.
I call her on the weekend saying I want to talk to her about something, and she doesnt call back... Still no sign of her online.
So then I actually go the the lengths of writing her a letter, since I know she cant ignore that without reading some of it at first.
Sure enoguh, the day she gets the letter, she's online and we talk for a long long time. We clear up a lot of stuff and why she did some of the things she did, yadda yadda yadda.. That's fine, at least I know what she was thinking and how she feels about things now.
Then comes the shit with our 2 mutual friends. I knew that one of them, 'B' as we will call him, liked her for a while and she told him that she doesn't feel the same way.. So I figured he's outta the picture... The other, 'X' hangs out with her so often that I figured its a good strong friendship and nothing more.. So no competition! Right? WRONG
Since friend X was feeling all p****d off and depressed all the time, and would never tell me what was wrong, I finally just told him about me and the girl so that he would have some kind of confidence in me.. Sure enough, what he and B had been arguing about lately was about hte girl too.. Ah shit!
X didnt know whehter or not to make a move on her, and I told him to go for it since I know I wont get anything out of trying to get with her.. This goes on for a week or so but he says he wont do it because he doesnt want to mess up the friendship ( another thing I told him to be wary about )
Well I find out today, that he (X) actaully went out with her for a few days, and that friend B told her to break it off. The part that tore me up inside, again, is that she does indeed like him, but had her friends tell him to ask her out..
Now Im f*****g depressed again, not only because I know she doesnt like me in that way, but that she DOES like my friend. Especialyl after saying how bad she is at realationships and how she wants to 'stay single'
f**k me in the ass, I f*****g hate dating drama.
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You my friend are a teenage intellectual w***e.
http://www.intellectualwhores.com
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Celestra
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 04:15 Post subject: Re: f*****g teenage drama...
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| Mental_Hernia wrote: | Now Im f*****g depressed again, not only because I know she doesnt like me in that way, but that she DOES like my friend. Especialyl after saying how bad she is at realationships and how she wants to 'stay single'
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Inc some tuff luv:
Get over yourself (don't take this as an insult, I mean it, everyone needs to get over him or herself at times ;p).
She might have said those things but 1: she doesn't owe you an explanation, and 2: those things can change, you're just p****d they didn't change because of you.
It sucks when someone doesn't like you back, or not the way you like them, but don't feel sorry for yourself too long. Get out there, I know it's the standard thing to say and doesn't seem very helpful and all, but it's true: there's millions of other girls out there... try not to let yourself get so hung up on only one. Especially when you're this young =)
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Celestra
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 04:30 Post subject:
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I always knew you were sensitive Kbarr!
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 04:40 Post subject:
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In Godfather 2 when they shoot Moe Green in the eye, while the poor guy was getting a massage, that made me cry.
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 12:33 Post subject:
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I sense a staple in the image gallery.
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Paco
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 12:40 Post subject:
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§ád §tory :/
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lauren000
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 13:56 Post subject:
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if a teenage girl is flaky avoid her like the clap
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Buntz
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 13:58 Post subject:
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| Sabalo wrote: | | Oh btw... Thats why i have my sig. THat was on my bumper for about 5 hours until my dad saw it and shit all over that idea. |
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Occulis
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 14:00 Post subject:
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It's difficult for most males to accept, but this is the most true thing you can ask yourself about a woman:
How interested is she in me?
If her interest level is low, she'll do shit like what you're experiencing. If it's high, you'll have to pry yourself away from her.
Accept that she has little or no interest in you and move on.
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Syke
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 14:27 Post subject:
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| Occulis wrote: | It's difficult for most males to accept, but this is the most true thing you can ask yourself about a woman:
How interested is she in me?
If her interest level is low, she'll do shit like what you're experiencing. If it's high, you'll have to pry yourself away from her.
Accept that she has little or no interest in you and move on. |
Ding ding!...and you can't do that by posting on Realpoor, so get your ass out there and tap some booty! Be proud that you at least tried...gave it your best. It didn't work this time, but it will work with someone else.
And if you show that you're over it with her and move on, she might actually sense that and feel more drawn to you /shrug.
"Like omg! he's like, over me already, I can't take this..ARGH I MUST CALL HIM *pulls hair out* .....or not...:O
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Silvermouse
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 14:50 Post subject:
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| Tiluvas wrote: | | Quote: | | I had a class with 2 guys and a girl.. Im friends with all 3 of them now. |
I knew where this post was heading as soon as I read that line. My suggestion to you, is that since both you and B were turned down by this girl, that you two should hook up. Theres no better **** than between two men scorn by the same woman.
Also, if you two hook up, then it will open up X to date the girl. It's a win win situation. |
haha
Actually, Mental Hernia, I think it was your needful stalking that scared her away. She needs her space! That and your s****y bowling average.
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Silvermouse
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 15:03 Post subject:
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| Kbarr wrote: | | In Godfather 2 when they shoot Moe Green in the eye, while the poor guy was getting a massage, that made me cry. |
"That kid's name was Moe Green -- and the city he invented was Las Vegas. This was a great man -- a man of vision and guts. And there isn't even a plaque -- or a signpost -- or a statue of him in that town! Someone put a bullet through his eye."
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Goraz
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 20:04 Post subject:
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f*****g teenagers need to get their head outta their asses and wait 5 years before "dating" if you wanna even call it that.
I stop at the diner and grab a bite to eat today before I have to head to class and makeup a test (of course the test is sched right before rushhour, anyway) I'm sitting at the bar seats and next to me are these punk teenage kids all loud, smoking cigarettes (and im trying to quit =p) being all loud, talking about this stupid shit omgomgomg like did u TOTALLY KNOW that this guy was like omg hitting on me omg like omg he was omg like yeah. Jesus christ, its like cutting your d**k off and turning gay, whats the point?
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Posted: 02/13/04 - 21:22 Post subject:
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Hey wait!
I'll play the tiniest violin evar for you!
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